A young woman went to see a psychiatrist. She told him she was schizophrenic and hoped he could help her. After a long conversation, the psychiatrist realised that she was not schizophrenic at all. Her family had imposed this false identity on her as a child.
I had eczema as a small child. I always had to wear gloves and my parents tied my hands to the side of my cot. Otherwise, I would scratch and tear my skin terribly.
Gradually the eczema disappeared, but then I was nervous, hyperactive and clumsy, even though I was intelligent.
Years later, I often visited a school friend. He recently told me how I accidentally spilt a jug of water not just once, but often.
My father encouraged me and I became a good chess player and learnt to appreciate classical music. I studied English literature and German, but in practical matters I kept making silly mistakes. My father was then irritated and critical.
Later I wanted to learn how to use a computer, but with little success.
Then, nearly 30 years ago, I wanted to study the Bible intensively. A friend of mine was studying at a Bible school. He told me that I absolutely needed a computer. That was in 1996.
I bought a computer and resolutely dedicated myself to mastering Windows 95. It wasn't child's play for me, but I didn't give up.
I worked as a language teacher for years. Through diligent effort, I developed my computer skills to the point where I could help my colleagues.
The idea that I was a technical idiot was deeply rooted in my childhood, but I was determined to overcome it. I've been using my computer every day for more than 20 years. I am a blogger and communicate with many people in other countries.
Were you given a false identity from an early age? Did you always hear that you were a failure, an idiot or perhaps mentally disturbed?
At school and at work, we always find cruel people who sense our insecurities and want to exploit them. Maybe that's why you experience bullying and are constantly put down.
None of this comes from God. God created you in his own image.
My mother was always put down by her mother. She went to university but failed miserably. Years later, she found help from a therapist. When she was 60, she went back to university. A few years later, she graduated. She wasn't really a failure.
God is your creator. He has a plan for every person. He doesn't create failures, idiots, mentally disturbed people.
You may be repeating the same negative thoughts about yourself over and over again. Please stop doing that!
Instead, keep repeating God's truth.
God created me and God does not create failures!
God created you for a good purpose. Ask God to show you how He sees you. You have potential.
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Jer 29:11 NKJV
With God as your guide, your potential can become reality. Even your weaknesses can become strengths.
Failure is not final. A well known American writer said: I failed my way to success.
You can’t earn your salvation. Jesus paid the penalty for your sins on the cross.
But Jesus did not accomplish everything for you so that you could accomplish nothing.
Wednesday, October 16, 2024
You have Potential. Failure is not Final.
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