Saturday, March 18, 2017

The Wrong Cross. Jesus is not your tormentor.

In a dream I saw a Christian hanging on a cross. 

I don’t remember any more detail except that the Christian had been experiencing disappointing results in his efforts to serve God.
What was the reason for this lack of success. 


The words in my dream were as clear as the sun in the sky. 


“The wrong cross!”



The Christian was nailed to a cross but it was not by God’s appointment. What could that mean?


In the dream I saw nothing more specific and God did not speak to me directly about it but as I pondered the message, many real life stories came to mind.

Lord Jesus and the Apostle Paul both taught that celibacy is a calling and a gift of God given only to some people. Paul was celibate but most of the Apostles, including Peter, were married.

Yet there are some churches that require all full time spiritual workers to be celibate. We read of sex scandals in the media on a regular basis. 


Clearly celibacy is for many people “The Wrong Cross.”


Many Christian women see their husband criminally assaulting their own children or corrupting them with pornography or incest. 

When such women protest, they are often not believed by church leaders or else they are told it is their own fault for not being a sexually satisfying wife. They are often told that it is a sin to leave their husband and that: “God hates divorce,” under any circumstances. 


If these women submit to this torture, they are on “The Wrong Cross.”


There are women who are taught that contraception is a sin and they must produce as many babies as they can.


They are on “The Wrong Cross.”


There are women who are taught that they must always, always, always obey their husbands. 

They are not free to serve God as disciples who receive their calling and direction straight from God. They are on “The Wrong Cross.”


There are women who are taught that they must not preach or teach or they must not preach or teach to men. Many are called and gifted by God to do what their leaders or husbands forbid. 


Many of these women are on “The Wrong Cross.”


Many Christians are taught that submission to the leaders of their church is their first duty. To leave or join another church is sin. 

They must sacrifice their dreams for their own life and ministry to serve the vision of the Senior Pastor. This can lead to a life of passive religiosity. They are not allowed to think for themselves or express any opinions other than those of their leaders.

These people are on “The Wrong Cross.”

Catholic Priests are called Father but many non Catholics are taught to be like obedient children under the control of a preacher.

I once heard a preacher teach that we must never challenge our pastor over anything because a pastor is accountable only to God and not to any man or woman.


What did Jesus say?

But you, do not be called 'Rabbi'; for One is your Teacher, the Christ, and you are all brethren. 


Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven. 


And do not be called teachers; for One is your Teacher, the Christ. Mt 23:8-10 (NKJV) 

There are Christians who are taught that God uses sickness to purify us through suffering. Many people suffer sickness, believing they are glorifying God.


They are on “The Wrong Cross.”


There is only one cross which deals with sickness, the cross of Jesus Christ.


When evening had come, they brought to Him many who were demon-possessed. And He cast out the spirits with a word, and healed all who were sick, 


that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Isaiah the prophet, saying: "He Himself took our infirmities And bore our sicknesses." Mt 8:16-17 (NKJV) 

When I read the Gospels, I see Jesus is the Healer, not the tormentor.


There are Christians who have been abused or mistreated for years. They develop a victim mentality, obsessed with injustice and their own suffering. Jesus lived, died and rose again to set you free.


Don’t stay on “The Wrong Cross.”


Don't Give Up. Hope Again.

Abraham and Sarah were way past their used by date but God had promised them a son.


Without weakening in his faith, he faced the fact that his body was as good as dead--since he was about a hundred years old--and that Sarah's womb was also dead. Romans 4:19 (NIV) 


But Abraham refused to let go of God’s promise.


Against all hope, Abraham in hope believed and so became the father of many nations, just as it had been said to him, "So shall your offspring be." Romans 4:18 



If you have a promise from God and you get tired of waiting, you need to build up your hope muscles. 


Human hope is often just wishing. Wishing so often leads to frustration and broken dreams but the hope that God gives has power to change your life.


When your hope is in God, you expect God to act. God can do it. If you belong to Jesus, you have an eternal hope. 

This life is a preparation for heaven. Death is nothing to fear. 



But this life is not just waiting to go to heaven. You have a purpose and a calling from God. God put you here on earth for a reason. 


God has a plan for your life but to fulfil God’s plan on earth, you need Faith and Love but you also need to Hope. God’s plans take time.


Noah was called to build a great ship with the help of a small family. He took many years but he finished it. 

God called Moses to take 2 million slaves out of Egypt and to lead them to the Promised Land.

David was a shepherd, poet, musician, soldier and then king.
Esther was a Jewish orphan who became the Queen of Persia and saved the Jews.  

Different people, different plans. Possibly you are not called to be a ship builder, a national leader or a soldier.


Often God calls unusual people to do unusual things in very unconventional ways.



After Ehud came Shamgar son of Anath, who struck down six hundred Philistines with an ox-goad. He too saved Israel. Judges 3:31 



David was called to be a soldier but he won his first battle by hurling a stone at Goliath.


I knew an unusual woman who said she was called to be an evangelist. Everyone knows an evangelist preaches on a platform with a microphone, so some people didn’t take her seriously. Then she left our city and travelled around the country, making connections to other unusual people and telling them about Jesus. 


I once read a book about this. “God made you as an original. Don’t die as a copy.”


God only made one Billy Graham but He also made you as one of a kind, a limited edition of one.


What is your calling?



For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the first born among many brothers. Romans 8:29 (NIV) 



You are called to be like Jesus, to love like Jesus, to believe like Jesus, to help others like Jesus, to show people the way to God as Jesus did. Together we are a team called to represent Jesus on earth but each of us has a different function in the team.


When you believe in Jesus and put your life in God’s hands, God creates a new you. Your spirit is recreated in the likeness of Jesus, the perfect human being.



Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NKJV) 


A new born Christian convert has the spiritual DNA of Jesus joined together with his or her human DNA. Every gifted musician, leader, engineer, businesswoman or writer was once a baby but the gift was in the DNA.


What is your God given DNA? It takes faith to recognise it. You need God’s love to use it for God and others. It also takes time to develop and fulfil God’s plan for your life.


Patience and hope. 

Nothing works without patience and hope.