The way of love can be hard. You have sincerely tried to be a faithful Christian, but you have been overwhelmed with all kinds of roadblocks for years.
Joan Hunter is the daughter of Charles and Frances Hunter, who were pioneers in the healing ministry. She was also faithful and gifted in ministering healing and salvation.
She married a man who was supposed to be a faithful Christian, but it turned out he was gay, and committed adultery with men.
Her heart was broken. She had children to bring up alone.
What happened to her ministry? Through her own experience she became intimately acquainted with trauma. Her tragedy became a treasure of healing for many traumatised women and men.
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort,
who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 NIV84
Those who are deeply traumatised in their souls need to understand that it is not only their thoughts and feelings that are hurt. Your whole being is damaged: your brain, your heart, your health.
Forgiveness is a necessary aspect of the healing process, but many counsellors go wrong when they give simplistic advice...
"Just forgive." Forgive, yes. Just forgive? Really?
Forgiveness is not easy and it is not simple. Forgiveness is also only part of the healing process.
Abuse and trauma can ruin your whole being. There are people who need to be rebuilt from the ground up.
"Just forgive" as formulaic advice is a poisoned chalice.
Traumatised people need healing, as much as patients who are dying with cancer.
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3 ESV
Are you broken? Your pain can become medicine for others who are suffering.
When people recover from a serious illness, they can donate their blood, which is used to infuse antibodies into others to protect them from the virus.
So I ask you not to lose heart over what I am suffering for you, which is your glory. Eph 3:13 ESV
Paul had to suffer a lot as a missionary. He wrote his letters to the Ephesians and Colossians in prison. As a suffering prisoner, Paul received and shared glorious revelations.
His suffering became a glorious blessing for the Ephesians.
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3 ESV
Are you broken? Your pain can become medicine for other suffering people.
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