When God chose a teenage girl to be the mother of His Son Jesus, He did not inform or consult Mary’s father, her fiancé, a priest or the elders of Mary’s synagogue.
...the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. Luke 1:26-27 (ESV)God did not send the angel to Joseph or Mary’s father but directly to Mary, a teenage girl.
And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. Lk 1:31God did not ask Mary’s parents or fiancé for permission.
And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her. Lk 1:38 (ESV)
Young Mary made one of the most important spiritual decisions in the history of the world without consulting any man or older person.What about Mary’s father? The Holy Spirit did not mention him.
What about Mary’s fiancé, Joseph? God told him after Mary was already pregnant.